Here is a puzzle the entire change industry sits on top of, and mostly avoids looking at.
A person can spend ten years in therapy, come to understand themselves completely – their patterns, their history, why they do what they do – and still live the same life. And another person can be transformed, permanently, by a single sentence from a mentor, or one weekend, or one experience that took minutes. Both of these are real. Both are everywhere. And the field’s response to this puzzle has mostly been to argue about whose theory is correct – which school, which method, which explanation of the psyche.
I think there’s a simpler explanation. And once you see it, both halves of the puzzle -> read more



